Fort Wayne Community Schools - Bullying Prevention

Fort Wayne Community Schools - Bullying Prevention

Bullying is addressed at all levels in FWCS through several programs.

Bullying comes in many forms - physical, emotional and cyber bullying. The Code of Conduct defines bullying as, "Overt, repeated acts or gestures, including verbal or written communications or images transmitted in any manner including digitally or electronically, text messaging; physical acts committed; or any other behaviors committed by a student or group of students against another student with the intent to harass, ridicule, humiliate, intimidate or harm the targeted student and create for the targeted student an objectively hostile school environment. This rule will also apply when using property or equipment provided by the school.

If a student is being bullied or sees someone else being bullied, please talk to a trusted adult at your school or Report a bullying incident here.

Bullying Prevention Tip of the Day

Bully Boot Camp: Day 30

Thanks for spending these 30 days with us. We hope
that you’ve gotten some value from the concepts we’ve
introduced.

Now that you’ve had some time with the program, you’ve
probably discovered that these concepts sound deceptively
simple, but are actually quite difficult to execute.

That’s precisely the reason we’ve developed our program,
for parents who want to stay on top of this issue, and these
concepts that are indeed easier said than done.

Our program, Manage Bullying: Answers for Parents, is
an online course that includes videos, learning materials
and discussion sheets enabling you to make the bullying
stop:

* When you sign up for this online program, you get
immediate access, and the ability to watch as often
as necessary.

* We estimate that watching the videos and reading the
materials will take about 2 hours total. (That means your son
or daughter can go to school tomorrow morning with
solutions and answers to end the problem).

* There are 11 sections, and new content is being developed
all the time. (Watch for special programs that specifically
focus on bullying and autism/special needs, a program just
for educators, and more.)

Click here to view one program segments.

Again, these are the skills of a lifetime of healthy relationships.
But first, the bullying must stop. Click here to order
Manage Bullying: Answers for Parents.

Gary T. Klugiewicz
and
Chan Lee
Verbal Defense Trainers, Manage Bullying: Answers for Parents

 

How to Tell if a Child is Being Bullied

  • Comes home from school with torn or dirty clothing or damaged books
  • Has cuts, bruises or scratches
  • Plays with few, if any, friends
  • Seems afraid to go to school, or complains of headaches or stomach pain
  • Doesn't sleep well or has bad dreams
  • Loses interest in schoolwork
  • Seems sad, depressed or moody
  • Is anxious or has poor self-esteem
  • Is quiet, sensitive or passive

Warning Signs of a Bully

  • Seeks to dominate and/or manipulate others
  • Enjoys feeling powerful and in control (whether real or not)
  • Is both a poor winner (boastful and arrogant) and a poor loser
  • Seems to derive satisfaction from other's fears, discomfort and pain
  • Is good at hiding behaviors or doing them where adults can't notice
  • Is excited by conflict between others
  • Blames others for his or her problems
  • Displayed uncontrolled anger
  • Has a history of discipline problems
  • Displays a pattern of impulsive and chronic hitting, intimidating and aggressive behaviors
  • Displays intolerance and prejudice towards others
  • May use drugs, alcohol or be a member of a gang
  • Lacks empathy towards others

What to do if You are Bullied

  • Tell a trusted adult at your school, such as your teacher, your principal or your bus driver, and tell your parents.

What to do if You Witness Bullying

  • Enlist an adult immediately, if someone is in danger of getting hurt
  • Do not watch. If you cannot intervene, walk away
  • Do not react emotionally with laughter or even a nervous giggle or snicker
  • Combat the rumor mill with the truth about the victim
  • Offer your support and friendship afterward
  • Report the incident, time and place to a trusted adult at your school, including your teacher, principal or bus drive, and tell your parents

Web Resources

  • Consumer Protect - Protect Your Kids Online - Resources for families on keeping children safe while online.
  • Stop Bullying.gov provides information from various government agencies on how students, parents, educators and others in the community can prevent or stop bullying.
  • Kids Against Bullying offers interactive games, videos and information for kids on bullying prevention.
  • Teens Against Bullying offers interactive information for teens on bullying prevention.
  • Stomp Out Bullying provides information and support on how to stop bullying.
  • FBI-SOS is the FBI's Web site to promote cyber safety.
  • Facebook's Safety Center offers safety information for parents, students and teachers.
  • A Call to Stop Bullying provides information on signs and effects of bullying and cyberbullying and advice for kids on how to stop bullying.
  • Stand For The Silent empowers youth to create cultures of kindness and stand up to bullying.

FWCS Anti-Bully Programs